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>>6421 No.14050
>>14049I think that's because Yoi came out right at the very perfect time where tumblr started to be at it's bitchiest phase regarding shipping / queer culture / queer politics (doesn't help that the voltron shitshow was happening too around this period) and Yoi was precisely perceived queer, from a big studio, with an emphasis on them being a true "canon" couple (unlike 'bad fujobaits') and had that small line that focused into 'reality' being about figure skating (coinciding with the popularity of the olympics at the time and people's obsession with Yuzuru Hanyu) rather than just some fantastical setting (or fujobait sports anime that 'didn't deliver' like haikyuu and free).
Everything just lined so perfectly to prop up Yoi as this tried and true 'queer' perfection that in the end, even though I don't like Yoi either, it only served to put MAPPA on spotlight and forget about it completely
No.14051
I'm waiting to go home to take my second shower of the day because I forgot to use shampoo after masturbating this morning and my hair feels terrible.
No.14052
>>14050You're honestly delusional if you think a show getting that massive, especially in Japan, has anything to do with tumblr lol
No.14053
>>14051>shampoo after masturbating What? Shampoo on pussy hair?
No.14054
>>14053The head. I got in, remembered some venti/traveler smut I was thinking about earlier and got out without doing anything in the shower I intended to do.
No.14056
>>14050Yeah, the YOI tumblr fans acting high and mighty over other fujobait sports anime fans rubbed me the wrong way, like "look at us! our show is superior because it has actual queer MLM representation!!" despite the fact that they always came off as bait-y in the show itself. I even remember a lie circulating around the time that Japan had a censorship law that forbid showing gay kissing in their media to defend how half-assed the Victor/Yuri kiss came off, despite shows like No.6 and even fucking Naruto showing it with no problem.
If you're going to go off and say an anime is some huge step forward for gay representation, at least go for an anime that actually had the balls to show their couple kissing on the lips.
No.14057
>>14052Did you deliberately miss the context of the post or?
>tumblr teens herald YOI as a revolutionary piece of media and an amazing step forward for gay representation No.14058
>>14055Whenever I thirst over my fav husbando, I'd rather see him getting railed by other men, then end with sloppy french kiss.
No.14059
>>13785>>13789I have OCs that having rough play and sloppy kiss during non-canon extra story, most of my male OCs are bi, bi-curious and only 2 of them are gay
But I ain't sure if I could have one of my male OCs canonically bi in canon story.
No.14077
>>14056I remember finding it very annoying then, and then more annoying when Sk8 fans did the same thing in 2021. Nothing can be fanservice anymore, it all has to be queer rep.
But given the huge draught in homo anything in anime now, I can see why people desperately latched onto it. It's still rare to get shows where the leads actually end the show alive and together. I wish anime still pandered because maybe we'd get something bigger and better than YOI if they actually bothered giving a fuck about fujos again.
No.14080
>>14079I watched season 1 of BSD and upon finishing it could not remember a single thing about the story. You aren't alone.
No.14097
I really wanna draw my otp fucking, but I fear no woman will ever want to date me if I connect my online artist persona to explicit gay porn.
No.14098
>>14097find a fujo gf, or keep a secret separate art account just for gay porn.
No.14099
>>14097Why would want to date a woman who doesn't accept you as you?
No.14100
>>14098Dating another fujo would make me so happy honestly.
>>14099Wow I love how you phrased it… thank you nonnas, I'll try to put my insecurities aside and keep making yaoi for other fujos to enjoy.
No.14101
>>14097This is why I would want to be bi4bi / fujo4fujo even if we don't have the same taste I feel like I'd weird out all other kinds of partners lol.
No.14104
I wish I didn't feel so disgusting and ugly looking and I could find a fujo wife, share my house and life with her, get a cat, go on vacation together and do all sorts of normie things. I'd even consider having children if I had an actual, deep and mature relationship with a woman… Sighs, my self worth is too messed up and fujos are too rare. The life I'll never have…
No.14105
>>14104I feel like 99% of fujos are dead set on hiding it from every person in their real life, which is what makes it so damn hard to find them. Even if you meet a girl who likes anime, you can't really out and say "oh, do you like BL?" It's something you keep close to your chest, and it makes you feel alone in your interests since anyone else who shares them is doing the same thing.
I've had success one when going off vibes and beating around the bush. Dropping Heavens Official Blessing when discussing favourite titles. But really, it's rough out there.
No.14106
>>14104You're not alone nona! Never give up hope!
No.14107
>>14105>I feel like 99% of fujos are dead set on hiding it from every person in their real life1%er here. I tend to mention fujoshit early because I consider it a filter. Ironically men seem more pleased by this because I think it signals to them I am actually a weeb–the women I meet are chill about it too but so far they've all been western-leaning het girlies (like ACOTAR and such) so we only connect in the sense that we understand shipping. I have yet to have a negative experience with it. Caveat: I don't have an online presence to cancel outside of fanfic impossible to link to me.
No.14108
Have been writing genderbent Yuri fanfic of one of my otps for do long that I find it strange to write BL of them now. I am afraid it's true what they say: some ships work better as f/f (I'm sure the reverse is true for some people/ships, just have never encountered it).
No.14109
>>14108>some ships work better as f/fCould you elaborate? I had never thought of this perspective before.
No.14111
>>14109You know what, nona? Trying to elaborate on this has just made me realise the times this has been true for me it's always been one side of the ship being a tall, muscular, goofy, cheerful, "himbo" type of character. And turns out I just am really into tall sports cheerful women irl. So maybe there's no logic to this and I just have a type, I'm afraid.
No.14112
>>14108>>14111TBH if you have to genderswap the ship to enjoy it then do you even like them? I feel like at that point you might as well just transform them into your own OCs.
What ship? I can't get into genderswaped into M/M outside of finding some fan art cute since I'm too much of a canonfag.
No.14113
>>14112Nta but
>TBH if you have to genderswap the ship to enjoy it then do you even like them?Maybe she's just more into women so it's easier for her to be into writing romantic stuff if they're lesbians. I'm sure she does like them but if she's writing smut maybe she just finds pussy4pussy hotter. At least she's keeping them gay unlike people who write cuntboy4male. Also it's interesting to explore the way different male characters would be changed if they were women.
No.14117
>>14112I mean, if you are too much of a canonfag then you probably won't understand it. It's the same as wondering "what if these characters were put in a soulmates au" or "what if this thing had happened differently in canon". It's just taking the same characters and exploring their relationship as lesbians instead.
I'd say an example would be genshin impact where characters are written poorly by nature of it being a gacha, but women are even more plain, bland, and one dimensional compared to the boys. So I tend to not enjoy any of the major yuri ships there. However if I like a BL ship I will also like their yurified version, so it's 2x1. Idk if that makes sense.
>>14113Yeah, I prefer women irl for sure and definitely like pussy way more than dick. I also write cuntboy4cuntboy, I think that's hot as fuck. Obviously I'm fine with writing canon boys too, but being into women (and pussy) definitely influences how much I'm into genderswaps.
The one thing I won't read or write is PIV regardless of genderbending or whatever gender magic there is going on. That's a major squick. Or futa4futa. Or women with dicks in general, that stuff makes me irrationally angry, personally, lmfao
No.14118
>>14117Careful they're gonna want to break your ankles for daring to have a cuntboy fetish. (I really wish cuntboy was shoved off in a corner so I can read my cis shit in peace but also have my bara cuntboy fix when I need it)
No.14119
>>14108Not a writer but I went through a similar thing as an artist with a past OTP. I'm not that into the ship anymore but to this day I still primarily see them as yuri and prefer them that way kek
No.14121
>>14118do you really have to come to a fujo ib to annoy everyone with your love of cuntboy? you can’t do that anywhere else?
No.14122
>>14117>>14118You cuntboyfags really need to keep your nasty fetish to yourselves.
No.14123
>>14121>>14122You're on an anonymous imageboard with differing opinions and fetishes, I don't care if someone likes cuntboy or other "weird" fetishes as long as they don't shame those who are grossed out by it or troon out as a result of it.
No.14124
>>14122Do you know what thread you are in
No.14125
>>14124No. I legitimately forgot
No.14126
>>14123People here seem to equate straight up unrealistic porn with irl troons which is an incredible irony.
Futa and yuri have been separated since the start, cuntboy should be separated from yaoi but for some reason even mentioning it is somehow both a problem for fujos and gendies. Why the concept of a filter or at the very least easy identifier to be filtered is so horrifying to women I don't know. Some people are genuinely trying to not have the two conflated as one and the same but according to
>>14121 that's not what they want.
No.14127
Life fucking sucks. Can't get a job, relationship is shit with my parents, my one friend is my ex, and I'm sad that all my twitter friends are mia asf and using it at all makes me feel evil for my inadequacies so there's no use in using it for casual distraction anymore. Hobbies, art, studying, none of it helps my morale. I just feel like I'm stuck in a depressive cloud caused not by great pain, but by a million small flicks from an unfulfilling life and poor relationships with everyone around me despite thinking I'm at worst milk toast rather than outwardly annoying. Gotta wonder what's the point when the world won't even let you prove your self with fucking job ringing up groceries at the supermarket and eveyone thinks your an evil retard for it, and even the people who care about you will flip if show any negative feelings in front of them… Why tf is everyone so emotionally unavailable now lmao. I say I want friends but whats the point if eveyone just slings meme speak in your face when you're trying to be real fuck bro lol. Miss my emo friend from middle school, she was real asf, wish she didn't live far asf away
No.14128
>>14121Victim complex over wanting the fujo vibe but having a problem with actual dick ig.
No.14129
>>14126It's the FTMs themselves confusing the two. I guarantee that if they tagged their fetishes correctly, then no one here would have a problem with it. It's when they tag cuntboy as yaoi or m/m that people take issue.
>>14127It'll get better nona. It's hard, but there are real people still out there.
No.14130
>>14118Boypussy faggots are not poor innocent souls receiving unjustified hate, they stablished their own (bad) reputation the moment they decided to refuse to put a damn tag in their shit (very basic task). You reap what you sow.
If you are the one misbehaving and creating a bad atmosphere in the first place by refusing to adhere to fandom etiquette, you don't get the "muh respect and tolerance" treatment.
Also, there's boypussy negativity in here because you can actually have a conversation about it in the first place without having to walk on eggshells and risking being isolated from social media mutuals.
No.14133
>>14130>without having to walk on eggshells and risking being isolated from social media mutualsYeah. Complaining about any of this on main socials is pretty much fandom suicide. You'd be burning a ton of bridges and making yourself a pariah. Even if other people agree with you, they won't interact with you out of fear of having the same thing happen to them.
No.14135
>>14133>Even if other people agree with you, they won't interact with you out of fear of having the same thing happen to themHate that bullying in fandoms is so heavily normalized under the guise of being "woke" or morally pure. I swear most people writing callouts secretly have beliefs behind closed doors that vultures like them would be foaming at the mouth to cancel them over.
No.14137
>>14126>>14130Hey I so tag/warn my cuntboy bullshit so people can avoid it. I think it's fine to dislike cuntvou stuff, and I think you should be able to say you are not into it without being called a transphobe about it. I fucking hate girld*ck and I wish I was able to say that without being policed lmao so I get it. We may have different tastes but in terms of how I think fandom should deal with these topics, I'm on your side, nona.
No.14138
This may be stupid but real life has been very hard lately and opening fujochan every night before bed to read silly and unhinged takes eases some of the tension and sadness of the day away. I love you, nonas.
No.14141
>>14140>Wraeththu flower dongsNever heard of those or anything related, care to enlighten me? It sounds interesting
No.14142
>>14141It's a british sci-fi bookseries from the 80's about humanity being being succeeded/replaced by hermaphroditic prettyboys with flowers for dicks. I couldn't tell you about the quality of the books since I haven't read them yet but will probably pick them up once I'm caught up with my current reading. There's also a terribad ttrpg based on the series so that's pretty cool too.
No.14143
>>14142Thank you!
The wikipedia bit about the author's life and your description makes me curious enough to read it.
I'll look for a copy and maybe start reading it this weekend.